On the face of it, holding the parents responsible for their children's actions is a good idea. Indeed, if you were to ask me, "should parents be responsible?" then my answer would be an unqualified "yes". If you then change the question to, "should parents be held responsible for their children's actions?", then I would have to qualify my answer, as the question is far more complicated.Originally Posted by Nick Bischoff
It is a slippery slope to start down. Just how far do you take it? There are many parents whose attitude to raising their children is, in my view, irresponsible. Conversely, I know of some excellent, very responsible parents who, despite their best efforts, have unruly and difficult children. If you're a parent yourself, or if you've looked after children for any length of time, then you'll know that children certainly have minds of their own. Cast your mind back to when you were 17. Did your parents know what you were thinking? Did they always know where you were? Did they think they knew where you were?
For all we know, the parents in this case might well have known that their child was obsessed and tried to do something about it? How much can we hold them responsible if this was the case? We're talking about a 17 year old - old enough (in the UK) to not have to attend school, to have a job, to drive a car, to smoke, even to get married with their parents' permission. One year away from being allowed to vote and drink alcohol.
There will always be unbalanced individuals who turn into murderers, stalkers, psychopaths, etc. When those unbalanced individuals do something wrong, it is natural to pin the blame on one thing. In this case, the press-generated hysteria has pinned the blame on a video game. Sometimes it is guns, or knives, or cults, or - as was the trend 20 years ago - on so-called "video nasties". Other times it is bullying, or societal pressures.
The bottom line. I think it is simplistic to conclude, as the press seems to have done, that it is automatically the game creator's fault. Equally, I think it is simplistic to conclude that it is the parents' fault, as both "good" and "bad" parents can have psychopathic children.
--- Rod


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